A hint from Elder Maxwell about forgiving:
In our families, in the Church, and in other relationships, will we stop letting yesterday hold tomorrow hostage? Will we reclassify others, knowing that forgetting is part of forgiving?
Neal A. Maxwell, “The Precious Promise,” Ensign, Apr 2004, 42
I suppose that reclassifying involves seeing others as God sees them, not merely as we have believed them to be.